True Dialogue--The Only True Path to Peace
An ancient Indian folk tale explains how we each have different perceptions of the world. Some Hindus had brought an elephant for exhibition and placed it in a dark house. Six men, who had never seen an elephant, went into that dark place, one at a time, to see the elephant. Finding that in the darkness, visual inspection was impossible, they felt it with their hands.
On coming out, each explained to the others:
- The palm of the first fell on the trunk. "This creature is like a snake," he said.
- The hand of the second lighted on an elephant’s ear. "Oh no," he exclaims, "It's like a large leaf."
- The third man felt a leg. "I found the elephant’s shape is like a tree," he said.
- The fourth caught hold of its tail, "Nonsense, an elephant is just like a rope."
- The fifth man placed his hands on the side of the beast, "It's just like a brick wall," he said.
- The last man, feeling a tusk, asserts, "You are all wrong, it's like a sharp spear!"
Moral of the Story...
No one sees anything from all points of view.
Only through sharing points of view,
can we come close to "seeing" the whole.
Each of us has a unique view of the world which includes a set of beliefs about the nature of the world in which we live. Beliefs about:
- The nature of human relationships (hierarchical, collaborative, individual),
- The nature of human nature (evil, mixed, good),
- The nature of human activity (being, becoming, doing),
- The nature of our time sense (past, present, future),
- The nature of our relationship with the environment (subordinate to nature, harmony with nature, dominant over nature). etc.
These beliefs structure our view of the world. In turn, our personal worldview gives rise to a unique set of personal value priorities. The reverse is also true. Knowing a person's value priorities, makes it possible to gain insights into how a person views the world.
Only through true dialogue, in a genuine effort to understand each other's worldview (i.e. understand why they see what we each see and why we each believe what we believe), can we create a peaceful world.
See also: Empathy: The Preeminent Value